Love at first sight, or so the saying goes, may appeal in the beginning. After all, the first thing we notice about a person is the way they look since we don’t know anything about them. But, what happens after you meet that person? A man may be physically attracted to a woman, but that will only keep their interest for so long. Here are five different things that are more important than looks to a man when it comes to settling down with a woman.
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1. A WOMAN WHO IS A GOOD LISTENER
This is perhaps one of the most challenging traits, especially for women. Men and women process things differently and, whereas women like to talk about their problems and get them out in the open, men many times need time to process and think alone. Sometimes, being a good listener means not asking any questions, giving any lectures or advice and simply saying that you will be there whenever he is ready to talk about what is bothering him. When he is ready to talk, then just listen. Don’t ask questions or offer any advice until he asks you to do so.
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2. A WOMAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO AND ENJOYS BEING SPONTANIOUS
While it’s important to be responsible, pay the bills, make sure everything is taken care of and be organized, it is just as important to be able to escape from the norm and be spontaneous and fun. Being spontaneous is not only healthy for you, it is a turn-on for a man. A spontaneous woman is a mystery to a man and shows him that he may never know what to expect from her (in a good way). It adds excitement to the relationship and shows him that you care enough about him and yourself to be fun and spontaneous, which helps to prevent the relationship from slipping into that ‘deadly’ comfort zone.….READ MORE ON THE NEXT PAGE