7.Try to be Mysterious
Being mysterious shouldn’t be an effort. Don’t add extra mystery to your life. Just work with what you have and don’t reveal everything right away. The idea that you need to make up a mystery is ludicrous and disingenuous.
8.Get a Feel for Him in Bed
The flip side of the wait to sleep with him crowd is find out what he is like right away. Sex should be something that fits in your comfort zone. Don’t put arbitrary time limits on things. Go with what you feel is right.
9.Dating is Work
Dating isn’t always a bowl of cherries, but it shouldn’t be work. Yes you are going to analyze with your girls, but don’t over think it. If a guy takes too much work, don’t be afraid to move on. Dating is supposed to be fun, not torture.