The problem with not knowing yourself worsens when you get into a relationship because not only do you know know the type of guy you’re looking for, you also don’t know what you want from a relationship. As such, you might date many duds who alter and shape your personality even more, distancing yourself further from who you really are.
It’s only when we take some time out to assess who we are and what we want that we are able to know what we want from our partner and any future relationship. We know what’s important to us, and what values we want to see in other people.
It’s not easy, of course, but spending time by yourself is a great way to lose old habits, grow new ones and discover your passions and true calling in life.
You Are Okay With Being Alone
Lots of us want someone. We don’t want to be “left on the shelf.” We want someone to share things with. Nobody wants to be alone forever. It isn’t nice.
With that said, it’s important that you’re okay and even happy when you’re alone. Your happiness can’t depend on someone else. You might get some of your happiness from someone else, but it’s unfair to rely on them for all of your happiness.….READ MORE ON THE NEXT PAGE